Sunday Summary # 3 – September is here!

September beginning is a sign of the changing seasons. It has begun getting darker earlier and cool mornings have crept their way in. Fall is just around the corner, which for me means more time indoors hiding from the cold weather. I hope many of you are out there enjoying this last long weekend of the summer. I hope tomorrow brings us some sunshine. September is going to be a busy month for me. I am working on a variety of great things for the blog: Stay, Play, Try & Fly – The final installments to this series will be … Continue reading Sunday Summary # 3 – September is here!


I am a vanilla chocolate twist ice cream while my hubby is pure vanilla. The comparison of ice cream to sexy-time preferences has been around for ages, so have relationships between people that have a vast range of different preferences. Love sometimes challenges us in ways that require compromise, patience, and understanding. My husband has always been supportive of my sexual exploration whether it be toys, lubes, or different techniques but I always felt not trying to include him wasn’t fair. I communicate many of my desires while respecting his boundaries and desires. I encourage him to try new things … Continue reading Connecting

Sunday Summary # 2

Managing all of life’s ups and downs has been difficult for me lately. I feel that things are finally coming together, start setting goals and investing more time in my self and blog. It feels great but then something else happens that sends me into a tailspin and my blog seems to be the first thing to suffer. I had signed up for the Summer 100 Challenge and disappeared once some other things were getting difficult. I am back and have started building my blog into my self-care routines. Maybe not multiple posts a week but I am aiming for … Continue reading Sunday Summary # 2

Midnight Musings

I haven’t posted in a while. So why not an impromptu blog post with minimal editing? My recent struggles have been surrounding fitting in. After realizing my coping mechanisms were failing and my defense mechanisms were strongly succeeding, I knew I had to do some reflecting and make some changes. This weekend I have excitedly read everyone’s posts from Woodhull wishing I had the courage and success to attend such an event. I have been working on a piece for a long time about how feelings of not fitting in (whether rational or not) can really hinder a person’s life. … Continue reading Midnight Musings

Sunday Summary #1

Sundays are a ritual of preparing for the coming week in my life. Sunday consists of meal planning and grocery shopping; laundry and cleaning; and various other tasks for the upcoming week. I always try to work in some time for relaxation and am trying to also work in some time for reflection. I don’t often sit and think about how the last week has gone. I don’t consider what I could do differently the next week based on what went well and what didn’t go so well the previous week. My life is undergoing large changes so introducing some … Continue reading Sunday Summary #1